Wednesday, November 19

不如爱的时候刚刚好


一整天,朋友圈里的话题都是他:14年里第一次认了女友

他是我中学时代的支柱,年末考辛勤的读书准备考试,就因为有他的新专辑来当奖励诱饵。而每当考完最后一张试卷后,就飞回家把整张专辑听了,把歌词背下来,再到K房点唱(然后朋友们都质疑我为何都点这些怪怪又难唱的歌lol)

中学毕业后,他的专辑越投靠主流而少了初期的独特,就开始少留意。但,他成了我人生的模范之一:坚持,重友情,孝顺,努力完成自己每一段梦


一年前,他教会我的是要找个自己专长的地方,再把它发扬光大;一年后,他再度提醒我:【爱的深,爱的早,不如爱的时候刚刚好】



Monday, August 18

漂洋过海来看你


为你我用了半年的积蓄  漂洋过海地来看你
为了这次相聚  我连见面时的呼吸  都曾反复练习 

言语从来没能将我的情意  表达千万分之一
为了这个遗憾  我在夜里想了又想  不肯睡去 

记忆它总是慢慢地累积  在我心中无法抹去
为了你的承诺  我在最绝望的时候  都忍着不哭泣

陌生的城市啊  熟悉的角落里
也曾彼此安慰  也曾相拥叹息  不管将会面对什么样的结局 

在漫天风沙里  望着你远去  我竟悲伤得不能自己
多盼能送你千里  直到山穷水尽  一生和你相依

 


Sunday, June 1

The Greatest

 
   I don't like departures and leavings when it comes to friendship. But as I age, one thing I have come to realize is that there is absolutely nothing wrong with people coming and eventually going in our lives because that is just a normal part of growing up.

   I used to be a little obsessed over the concept of friendship, to the extent where I would wonder why some friends had to depart from our lives at certain points in time. I would begin doubting the "true" meaning of friendship. And that was until I learned that impermanence and change is one of the basic facts of existence.

   Right now I no longer would deliberately label if someone is just a normal friend or a really good friend. A friendship is best left undefined sometimes because we will never know what is going to happen next, and we don't want to end up getting hurt by the boundaries and expectations we define for ourselves and friends. Over time we will eventually be able to tell the depth of a friendship.

   Regardless of what is going to happen, I have learned to appreciate better the bond of being together with all the friends who come into my life. I have come to slowly appreciate the "nowness" of each moment, because I know it isn't going to be forever. One day there may come a point when we have to move on and say goodbye to some of our friends too - we just never know.

   But that is okay. I guess when the time is right again, re-entering each other's lives is never an uncommon thing. And in the end, will realize that some of friends have never really left. Why, they've always been there! It's just that they are occupied with something else as they move from one chapter to another in their lives, just like how I'm doing exactly the same.

   Just want to say it's great to have you in my life. The experience with each of you has been very different, but that's only because everyone has their very unique personalities that cannot ever be replicated. :)


Wednesday, May 14

如果你也听说

 

【当时我们都不肯承认对方最好, 后来却一直寻找哪个人能像你这样好】


Friday, April 25

搭讪





搭讪:

男人会说,诶,有过什么特别的搭讪经历?
女人会说,上次被搭讪是几时,对方是.......

印象中有两次特别难忘的搭讪,
而你,是在第二次的搭讪中认识 (内容还很劲爆的搞笑)
男人眼里,或会有些(也可能只是我)只远远观望不去靠近的异性,他们明明就是天上的仙女嘛,层次根本就不同,但很庆幸那一次,跨过了这一步而认识你

可以很放下心很舒服的说心
可以看到搞笑的就要跟你分享
可以放下【男人一直要沉稳】社会负担,拿出孩子气瞬时疯癫
然后到发生事情时你会找我说(虽然知道你极度隐私)
然后到买个产品都要来问哪个好(应该不会下次买菜也问我)
就这样,
会心一笑
只想说,很珍惜你的存在!

我说:仙女也,哪里敢靠近
她说:其实,我是很害羞......



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